every pride I see biphobic shit throughout the month but I stay quiet because it’s pride and if I do that I’m causing a divide….. causing a divide by asking why people constantly feel the need to come for bisexual women who just so happen to be dating men.
“if there’s one thing bi women will do is come to pride while leaving her boyfriend at home so she can kiss girls and use girls for sexual pleasure but really she’s just a straight bitch who is experimenting any bi woman who ends up dating a man was never gay ever they were just using other women to experiment there is no way a BISEXUAL WOMAN could find men attractive too” like you ppl don’t get tired? every day it’s “I hate bi women with boyfriends”…… what a beautiful scapegoat 🫶 it’s not the fact that woman has a boyfriend is it? you associate so many other terrible things with bisexuality but you keep claiming it’s just bi women and their “loser boyfriends” that you don’t like. and so what if a bi woman has a “loser bf”…..and it’s only ever bi women who get this treatment
Listen, you should never film strangers in public without their consent, but I swear there need to be fines or something for people who do that shit in some spaces. For example: I had to go to the ER last night, and some jerk filmed a woman who just came in and was clearly having an asthma attack. She immediately got to go back, and he was unhappy about that. Believe me, I get that it sucks having to wait when you’re in pain, but you don’t get to pick who deserves care when. The medical system in the US is a nightmare, and the ER could be the worst moment of someone’s life. No one deserves to be recorded because some jack ass believes someone doesn’t look like they need care.
This is fine to reblog. People who film strangers should be shamed if nothing else.
I know a lot of EFR instructors (Emergency first response, the people who teach CPR classes) who used to be ambivalent about this and now are firmly in the “fuck you fuck your phone category.
Maybe its demographics, EFR instructors do tend to be older and less online, but there’s been a shift from voyeur filming being seen as irritating and tasteless to actively harmful.
I met one lady who had an entire section of her lecture based on how to divide labor in emergency and one of those steps was crowd control. If you are taking charge of an emergency situation, you delegate tasks. Point at one person and tell them to call 911, Point at another person tell them to warn traffic, Point at another person tell them to get the first aid kit if you know where it is. You assign small tasks to individuals instead of asking a crowd that way the task actually happens, and you’re not sitting around 20 minutes later wondering why the ambulance is taking so long to show up and it turns out that everyone assumed someone else called.
Now there is another step. Pick a big dude and tell him to stop people from filming. Which is actually the tamest version of what she said, because this lady went on and on about how phones are fragile, light, small, pieces of computer equipment that can be easily punted into oblivion.
And yeah, she’s probably the most vocal proponent of property destruction in the face of voyeur filming I’ve heard lately but she’s far from the only person in emergency services who’s frustrated with the eternal quest for viral videos of strangers pain.
And to be clear there is a huge difference between the paramedic who doesn’t want you filming and the cop who doesn’t want you filming.
freshman year of college I (a simple lesbian) met a gay dude and we instantly clicked and started talking about our childhoods and stuff and discovered we were born in the same hospital on the same day so we became each other’s beards and watched hentai together every weekend
That sentence started and ended in very different places
the issue is i can’t see the phrase ‘the beast’ in any context without thinking of my dog. it’s bad. saw an edgy text over painting image on pinterest that said 'the beast comes for us all eventually’ and just thought about this fucker
